jchrisobrien ([personal profile] jchrisobrien) wrote2001-03-04 03:59 am

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When people say you are trying too hard, that's not what they mean.
When peopel say you are looking too hard, that's not what they man.
What they really mean is, you want it too much.

How do you not want it too much?

I hope my dreams are more comforting than my reality tonight...

(Anonymous) 2001-03-14 09:47 am (UTC)(link)
I certainly believe people often get what they are looking for in love, only I think it doesn't often look exactly the way you thought it would. I'm not saying that you should necessarily stray from your type, but if you find someone who is wonderful in lots of ways, arguments over Skinny Puppy will be amusing and irrelevant. Sure, you want to have things in common with the person you're dating, but it does not all come down to music and movie taste (though there is a limit-- I'm sure you wouldn't want to date the president of Backstreet Boys' Fan Club). Sometimes it's nice to have someone introduce you to new things. In any case, good luck. I'm sure you'll find someone that will make you happy. Best wishes. :-)