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[jchrisobrien]

When people say you are trying too hard, that's not what they mean.
When peopel say you are looking too hard, that's not what they man.
What they really mean is, you want it too much.

How do you not want it too much?

I hope my dreams are more comforting than my reality tonight...

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[silas7.livejournal.com]

Intense emotions are scary.

I imagine it does make them uncomfortable, or frightened.

I still don't know why they are frightened or not interested in the first place. That sounds arrogant, but hey: arrogance is better than sniveling and self pity.

There's no real answer for why things don't work out: there could be factors on their side, not being ready for a relationship. They should simply not be inspired or attracted. They could be looking for something different.

That doesn't make the frustration go away, though maybe it should. One just has to not dwell on
(thanks very much for writing!)

it, let the feeling and emotions go.

Or some such crap like that. Argh.

Well, I'll have more time to ponder this tomorrow, if this blizzard they are calling for really hits us.

Wishing you peace and happiness back,