jchrisobrien ([personal profile] jchrisobrien) wrote2002-10-23 10:41 am

Becoming

The events of the past few days are a good example of how my entire life has changed in the past year. Growth, transformation, an ongoing process that never really ends. I've seen some deep seated reprogramming happen, met wonderful new people, had my stumbles and falls and false starts. I've had blissful moment of pure happiness, and more often than I'd expect. One of the best parts of this year was taking the time to get to know people better. Sharing stories about gaming and music and politics over a pint, sitting in the dim light watching a thriller with the smell of wine and smoke in the air, shared dreams and fears and strengths. A meeting of the old and the new as a couple prepares for a huge change in their life. Faces that I've seen only briefly, seeing new sides to familiar faces, and relaxing! Sitting and listening quietly not because I fear to speak, but because I want to listen. Speaking naturally, smiling to myself over a glass of blueberry wine.

And honestly? I'm filled with joy today. I've received a letter from a user's manager, congratulating me on going above and beyond the call of duty. I've had well wishes from all over the map. And I have an action packed evening ahead of me.

I'm glowing again. You just might need to turn down the brightness of your monitor.

[identity profile] quislibet.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 07:45 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glowing again.

My eyes! My eyes!

Happy birthday.

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:55 am (UTC)(link)
Do you think they will give me a hard time at the club for glowing? "I'm sorry sir, glowing is against the dress code."

Thank you sir!

[identity profile] haloedone.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 07:47 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe it's the reflection from the birthday candles. :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

[identity profile] couplingchaos.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:27 am (UTC)(link)
yeah, you should have the fire department on standby if you plan to light enough for each of your years

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:35 am (UTC)(link)
Nooooo kidding!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you!
And there are oh so many candles to blow out,
fortunately I had a good set of... lungs.

Let the innuendo begin! ;)

[identity profile] cosmicserpent.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 07:48 am (UTC)(link)
Happy effin Birthday!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:54 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so seriously.
See you tonight post ManRay, with my happy stumbling self :)

[identity profile] rupie-zum.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday. =) (http://www.livejournal.com/talkpost.bml?journal=b0st0n&itemid=608723)

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 09:04 am (UTC)(link)
Wow.
Just another reason why I have an amazing roommate!
Thanks for the well wishes!

[identity profile] captain-grim.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know you, but I am one friend removed to you through EeyrG.

In my personal mythology, it signals positive change and good fortune for the coming year if it snows on your birthday.

So, happy birthday!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:26 am (UTC)(link)
I have read many of your comments over the last few months, including the unfortunate post f1 racing incident. Yuck.

I think I'm a big fan of your personal mythology.
Thank you very much!

[identity profile] captain-grim.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 01:24 pm (UTC)(link)
It snowed last year on my birthday and I have had a great year. So good luck to you!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 03:24 pm (UTC)(link)
There you go, there's a precedent!

[identity profile] khourytamarisk.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:02 am (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday from myself & the Elder DiPesa!! *hug*

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:35 am (UTC)(link)
Many thank yous, to you and the man who now does what I dreamed of doing in school.

As a birthday gift to the two of you, we have Buffy on the Tivo and can make a copy for you!

[identity profile] khourytamarisk.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:41 am (UTC)(link)
*squeeeeee* Thank you! I was talking to Klae about that in my 1st LJ post today. Hell, I'll still get him Chinese food or see his show. =;)

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
eggsellent... :)

[identity profile] gobetween.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:21 am (UTC)(link)
Sounds like a great year. Happy birthday, you!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:27 am (UTC)(link)
I think the best is yet to come, but there was a lot of good to look back on *big grin*.

Many thanks, oh world traveler!

[identity profile] rojagato.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:29 am (UTC)(link)
Happy birthday, Chris! See you at the show.

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
Yes you will indeed. We are eating at Roka now, which is much close to the Skybar.

All is coming together so well....

*bouncebounce*

Happy Birthday!

(Anonymous) 2002-10-23 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
You are loved by your friends, and deservingly so. Have a great birthday.

Re: Happy Birthday!

[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:37 am (UTC)(link)
That's what I've come to learn and deeply believe.
I was sure of it before my birthday, and today it's been spelled out for me in letters so big even I can read them!

Thanks for the well wishes :)

in letters so big

[identity profile] photiq.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:00 pm (UTC)(link)

H-A-P-P-Y B-I-R-T-H-D-A-Y !



(because sometimes it's fun being literal)

Re: in letters so big

[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:06 pm (UTC)(link)
bwahahaha!
It certainly is, it certainly is.
See you on the dance floor?

*hugs*

[identity profile] jennytsk.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 08:40 am (UTC)(link)
Happy Birthday!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:39 am (UTC)(link)
Many thanks!
I love your user icon. :)

[identity profile] carta.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 09:10 am (UTC)(link)
Birthday, birthday! Happy wishes from strangers is always a good thing, I feel. So have a happy one, enjoy your evening (I've always wanted to go to ManRay) and just glow your little heart out.

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:44 am (UTC)(link)
It certainly is nice to get well wishes from out of the blue. I like your choice of icons, and see we have a few common interests. I think I have a lot more glowing to do before the day is out!

Hope your enjoying the new season of Buffy as much as I am. And thanks again!

[identity profile] atalanta.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 09:35 am (UTC)(link)
happy birthday!
I

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:46 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you very very very much!
U

[identity profile] ionlysaid.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 09:36 am (UTC)(link)
have been keeping up and enjoying your journal for a couple months now. happy 33rd (don't sweat it, i'm right behind you)!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:48 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks very much. 33 doesn't seem so old to me these days... I lived my 20's like I was 30, and now I'm living my 30's like I'm 20.

Quite the deal, I'd say. :)

Let the sangria flow!

[identity profile] dirtyknees.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 10:13 am (UTC)(link)
You deserve happiness! Especially on your birthday!

Happy Birthday!

--Andrea

Re: Let the sangria flow!

[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
awwwwww yeah!
I think I'm getting an overabundance of happiness, but I'm not complaining!

Woo hoo!

[identity profile] phulishguy.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 10:49 am (UTC)(link)
Hi. I don't know you at all, but ta_chuang posted that I should say happy birthday to you because you are good people.

So, even though I don't know you: HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

May your day be filled with joy and laughter, good friends and good times.

- PG

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
I need to remember to thank ta_chuang when I return tonight! He is a kickin' roommate.

There has been joy and laughter aplenty today, with more good times and good friends arriving the evening.

Thanks for the well wishes :)

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[identity profile] phulishguy.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 02:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Most welcome. I figure my birthday always sucks as, so why let that happen to someone else, no?

Call me the birthday bodhisattva...

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's hoping your next one will go a lot better for you! *raises glass

you

[identity profile] heatray.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:10 am (UTC)(link)
are an absolute bad ass!

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Am I the meanest? Am I the prettiest?
Am I the badest mo-fo-low-down around this town?
Well who I am?
Yeah.....

[identity profile] jennever.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 11:25 am (UTC)(link)
happy birthday, my dear!
im not sure im going to make it out tonight.
if i dont, i owe you a raincheck for the birthday mind-eraser!
enjoy your day, and the rest of your new year.

xoxo

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[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:00 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs!*

I'm sure I'll see you out again to collect.
You should see the big stupid smile on my face right now. Whoo!

Happy Birthday!

[identity profile] peculiaire.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:09 pm (UTC)(link)
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Re: Happy Birthday!

[identity profile] silas7.livejournal.com 2002-10-23 12:15 pm (UTC)(link)
It exploded in a big ball of happiness.
One of the really keen points of that recently detonated year was meeting a certain Goth geek at Convergence, who was one of the highlights of the entire trip.

Now who could that be? ;)

*hugs*
Thanks a ton!