Morale Victory (not a typo)

Unsurprisingly, despite epic dice and command failure this weekend, I found myself eager to be playing again last night. I'm still passionate about my hobby, but I also have a new goal when playing, which should make this a win/win situation for me. If I win the game, that's great. If I'm losing the game, I can still win by not getting upset about that things that bother me. Bad dice are something that happen in any game, and from the stories I read on various forums, I'm not the only person who's blown multiple panic tests in a row. The less it's about me, the less I can get mad at myself. Tactical mistakes are OK, as long as you don't repeat them. If you do, it's better to laugh about it than kick yourself for it. No one gets hurt after a game.

Step two is to apply similar logic to dating.