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Feb. 8th, 2002 09:37 amI'm less tired today than I was yesterday. This makes no sense, as I was awake until about 2:30, then woke up at 6:30, and finally at 7. I'll be taking a half day today, because I need to get a street parking permit for my car, and contest the ticket I got on Thursday.
The new VNV Nation album is ... unexpected. There's a lot more variety in musical styles, but some of it is very.... sissified. Techno hippie would be a little more accurate. I initially hated it, but some of the songs grow on me. Treat it with an open mind if you get it, or ask to listen to my copy.
Flirting is an odd custom. It varies from person to person how they use it. Some people flirt with people they aren't interested in at all, because it's safe. Some use flirting as a way of testing for potential interest. And some interpret any flirtation as actual attraction. And so many levels of flirting! from just commenting that someone is cute, to soliciting for group sex. Like far too many words in our language, there are a million definitions, and no one can agree on them. This bothers the hell out of me, I like for everything to be on the same page. Sometimes I think flirting is a way of showing that you are interested in a person. You wouldn't tell someone you found them attractive if you didn't, right? I also don't think you can flirt with someone w/out have at least having the thought that if conditions were right, you would actually consider it.
Flirting can also just be complimentary. It's always nice to have someone flirt with you, it 's esteem boosting, and can really lift your day. Unless you wonder if they are serious or not, or read into things. But if people use flirting as a way to see if you are interested, and you just ignore it, then you miss out on things.
So, what are your thoughts on flirting?
I'll get to my 15 things soon enough...
The new VNV Nation album is ... unexpected. There's a lot more variety in musical styles, but some of it is very.... sissified. Techno hippie would be a little more accurate. I initially hated it, but some of the songs grow on me. Treat it with an open mind if you get it, or ask to listen to my copy.
Flirting is an odd custom. It varies from person to person how they use it. Some people flirt with people they aren't interested in at all, because it's safe. Some use flirting as a way of testing for potential interest. And some interpret any flirtation as actual attraction. And so many levels of flirting! from just commenting that someone is cute, to soliciting for group sex. Like far too many words in our language, there are a million definitions, and no one can agree on them. This bothers the hell out of me, I like for everything to be on the same page. Sometimes I think flirting is a way of showing that you are interested in a person. You wouldn't tell someone you found them attractive if you didn't, right? I also don't think you can flirt with someone w/out have at least having the thought that if conditions were right, you would actually consider it.
Flirting can also just be complimentary. It's always nice to have someone flirt with you, it 's esteem boosting, and can really lift your day. Unless you wonder if they are serious or not, or read into things. But if people use flirting as a way to see if you are interested, and you just ignore it, then you miss out on things.
So, what are your thoughts on flirting?
I'll get to my 15 things soon enough...